Albert Einstein is reputed to have said,
“The brain that causes the problem cannot solve the problem,” yet we still expect addicts to make decisions that
reflect normal thinking. Using alcohol or other drugs repetitively changes the
brain – both its structure and its function – in ways that persist long after the drug use
has ended. It is a common belief that when addicts are sober their thinking is normal, and their
brains are altered only when they are actively using drugs. But, the addicted brain does not return
to normal between periods of alcohol or other drug use. Many changes in the brain take months and even
years to reverse themselves.
Anyone with a close relationship to an alcoholic or addict is astounded over and over again by what seems to be a disregard
for personal responsibility. However, addiction basically robs the addict of the ability to be consistently
responsible. Similarly, it is assumed that negative consequences will eventually turn addicts around (“hitting
bottom”), but their brains are ignoring consequences because of the structural changes in those brains.
Research on methamphetamine and cocaine shows that these drugs stop brain cells from growing stronger and building
more complex communication networks. As a result, addicts don’t learn from their experiences.
The capacity to learn is blocked even after the drug use is stopped.
For addicts, recovery is not simple abstinence. It’s about healing the brain,
remembering how to feel, learning how to make good decisions, becoming the kind of person who can engage in healthy relationships,
and becoming willing to accept help from others. Addicts cannot identify their own delusional thinking.
The identification – and the motivation to get help – must come from outside the addicted brain.
Recovering from addiction is never easy. Success in addiction treatment is a function of time in
treatment, and time in treatment is often a function of coercion – being forced into treatment by a loved one, the criminal
justice system, workplace requirements, or medical intervention. Research indicates that 3 months in treatment
(outpatient and/or residential) is the minimum threshold for addiction treatment to be effective. Longer
treatment is even better.
Families begin to worry about relapse before addicts are discharged from treatment. These fears
are well-founded. The decision-making regions of the addict’s brain are still defective.
Judgment is poor. The ability to weigh risk against benefit is faulty. These
brains still have trouble learning from past mistakes. Understanding the limitations of the addicted brain
in early recovery makes it easier to understand the first rule of recovery, “Just follow the directions!”
In other words, you can’t trust your own brain.
The problem is, of course, that alcoholics and addicts are grandiose and feel extraordinarily unique. They
don’t think “follow the directions” applies to them. They are sure they possess special
qualities and insights that make them different from everyone else. While the addict is in treatment, formulating
a relapse prevention agreement gives the addict a reason to follow the directions. People who follow directions
rarely relapse. But if they do, the relapse agreement
gives them, and those in their support network, something to fall back on after the relapse.
Generally speaking,
treatment is a preparation for recovery. The recovery model is the appropriate model to address
the chronic disease of addiction. Ongoing recovery happens in 12-step (AA or NA) programs, or other support
processes. Alcoholics sometimes say, “I didn’t get anything out of attending AA.”
Alcoholics Anonymous isn’t about getting, it’s about giving. During
ongoing recovery in 12-step programs, alcoholics and addicts stay sober by reaching out and helping other addicts.
Addiction was about “me,” but recovery is about “we.”
Source: Debra Jay, No More
Letting Go: The Spirituality of Taking Action Against Alcoholism and Drug Addiction, Bantam Books, 2006.